Obituary of Stephen Gerard Aloi

Burdett:  Age 72, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 15, 2024.  Born and raised in Elmira, Stephen was the son of the late Stephen J. and Antoinette Emanuel Aloi.  He is also predeceased by his infant brother Edward and brother Daniel.  Stephen is survived by his children, Stephen G. Aloi II, of Pittsford NY with wife Sarah and sons, Brooks and Jack; daughter Amanda M. Fogarty, of Elmira, with husband Matthew; longtime companion JoAnn K. Stanbro; sister Edwina A. Aloi of Charlotte NC; along with several nieces, nephews, and cousins. 

Stephen graduated from Elmira Free Academy in 1971.  He had a long-time career as a general contractor.  An avid outdoorsman he was a skilled fisherman and hunter who had a great love of nature. 

For those lucky enough to know Stephen they knew his tender and sensitive nature hidden behind a tough exterior.  With a larger-than-life personality you knew when he was around. A loving father and grandfather, Stephen adored his grandsons. He found great joy when family and friends would gather to enjoy his traditional Italian cuisine, as love was expressed through food.  With a “I did it my way” attitude, Stephen brought much laugher, caring and giving to friends and family.  He will forever be loved and missed.

Family and friends are invited to Stephen’s Mass of Christian Burial, Friday, May 24, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, 905 North Decatur Street, Watkins Glen NY.

Stephen’s family extends their sincere gratitude to the staff at Schuyler Hospital for their compassion and care throughout his stay in the hospital.  For those wishing to remember Stephen, please consider a donation to the American Cancer Society, 1120 Goodman Street S, Rochester NY   14620.